As you know, I've been lamenting a damaging hair incident which left me having to grow out unintentionally straightened hair. Unintentionally you ask? YELP! Let's not dwell. Anyway, I'm on the rebound and making strides forward. Since last year I've been heavily invested in protective hairstyling to keep my hair safe while it rebuilds itself to some sort of glory.
People have been quite interested in my endeavors as I've managed to change hair colors, dabble in cuts and styles that aren't necessarily "me" but TONS of fun. Don't get me wrong, it does NOT thrill my soul that my colleagues in office look at me weirdly that first day of "new hair".
After a colleague literally jumped when he saw me, I decided that the braids I used to get when I was in my early 20's (when I still looked like 18 even though I was 25... tee-hee) do not suit me now. They do not suit me AT ALL and further, while on the subject of things that don't suit, all hair color is not for me... and can be aging. I drink lots of water, and bathe in moisturizer while screaming the lyrics to "Forever Young" so basically I don't have time for hair color that ages.
giThe take away from my hair exploits? A new mantra - BE. DO. LOOK. your absolute best by any means possible, resorting to trickery, skullduggery and outright fakery if you have to!
Why? Because life is too short! Pictorial evidence of the shame of a hair disaster will come back and haunt you years from now AND you're not 12... you know, when your mom ( my mom included) gave you a TRULY heinous home perm, color, cut etc. and while you, stunned to tears or utter silence, looked in the mirror like a FREAKING FOOL, she patiently told you. "Oh well, you'll just have to let it grow out." UMMM NO!
There is nothing that says that one has to WAIT patiently until hair is satisfactory. What does one do? Give up on life? Refuse to be seen socially ? Mine (with pick and shovel) for even more inner beauty and press others to see it too? Nope. My confidence can't take that kind of waiting game anymore.
Throw on a good wig, get extensions, color the heck outta those things and keep changing it up until you get the compliments you want and deserve. The main thing is to keep your natural hair healthy underneath. Keep up with your trims, conditioners, moisturizing routines, masks, taking your vitamins and giving yourself 4-minute inverted scalp massages. There is no shame in the wig/extension game!
Soooo evidently a scarecrow haircut is a thing. Like its a legit thing. It's been featured in Allure Magazine - legit. Well, let me clean that up, there was an unfortunate incident in a barber shop where a man got MESSED ALL THE WAY UP (to put it mildly) and ended up looking like a scarecrow. Shudder.
Recently, I was standing in line at the DHL and my friend, a impending bride, calmly (while I thought she should have been losing her mind) said her stylist ignored her instructions for a dusting and cut her hair. Fortunately, she wasn't scarecowed but in the name of being a bride, let me be hysterical on her behalf.
THAT WENCH OF A STYLIST CHOPPED HER HAIR! A CHOP???!!! With t-minus ____until the major day? That's when your alter ego has full permission, (from me at least) to tip over the stylist's chair, flex the colorful part of the vernacular and act "Real Housewives of" ignorant. My friend is a lovely English lady (very Devonshire cream tea) so there was only a polite look of slight exasperation and "no comment".
After I verbally drug the stylist on behalf of my lady-like friend, I immediately went into "how do we grow this out mode".
There is only so much one can do to rapidly grow your hair out in a short period of time but there are things that you can do to retain the hair you do have and not erode the strides that your hair will make naturally.
1. Treat your hair lovingly!
2. Slather up! - Moisturize your hair to the n-th! Use a moisturizing mask once a week for 5 - 20 minutes. If you want to go the extra mile, add heat, via a steamer or hot towel on top of a shower cap.
3. No alcohol - Sulfate free and alcohol based products are a big "no" especially if you have curly hair. Both your shampoo and conditioner should be safe and nourishing. Don't neglect your ends during the conditioning process.
4. Stimulate - Scalp massage and brushing help stimulate the blood flow to the scalp. Increased blood flow means better hair and faster hair growth. For tips and hints on how to do a beneficial scalp massage check out this previous blog post.
5. Get your minerals - A good hair, skin and nails vitamin should become part of your twice daily regime. For the bride to be, I suggest folic acid or pre-natal vitamins taken as directed on the packaging. *for men I suggest Nutrafol Men an all natural supplement specially formulated for men which blocks DHT the main culprit in male pattern baldness.*
6. Heat break - Rest your blow dryer and flat iron or at least one of the two. Daily heat, no matter the hair type should not be part of your life during this sensitive time.
7. Buns & Braids - Protective styles may make you feel a little matronly...but they can be cute and are necessary in order to preserve your precious growth. Protective styling prevents hair from tangling which cuts down on detangling time and inadvertent breakage.
So you had a bad cut... You are/were distressed? Looking cray? Fret no more! You've got a plan!
It's amazing how an endorsement from the most popular and fabulous "IT" person of the moment makes you rush to purchase whatever magic elixir that we assume will wrap us in the same luck, looks, and luxury they enjoy.
Maybe 2017, was good to no one else except Cardi B and even though I only learned of her hit song and queen of the popular girls status, just moments ago, I am intrigued by the phenomenon that this young rapper. Rough around the edges is an understatement. Cardi B is all self-made, hustling, scrappy, will cut you because, knows "what's up", striving reality TV regular, stripper in a former life, 25 year old woman of today (I can't believe she's 25). It takes a while to unpack the Bronx Dominican accent, but once I watched a few interviews, I was educated.
As image conscious as the best of her peers, Cardi B reviewed and casually endorsed Vida Hair Growth products on one of her YouTube videos discussing her own hair growth journey.
I'm excited about Vida Hair Growth products! Yvette Perez, founder and creator of the line is clearly passionate about hair care for those who are really suffering with health maladies. Specifically, Vida Hair Growth products claims to restore chemically processed-damaged hair, and assist in the hair restoration of those suffering with Alopecia, Telogen Effluvium, balding, as well as hair loss due to undergoing Chemotherapy. These are serious claims about serious issues.
Perez says she is "overwhelmed and humbled with the joy of helping others find hope and happiness again." The testimonial pictures are absolutely astounding! I'm so excited for those who have experienced success with these products.
From the YouTube videos (this girl is chatty and relatable), I have concluded that at the very least your hair will be super shiny and looking brand new after using Vida Hair Growth products (I'm down for that). While the hair products claim to be for people of all hair types, I'll reserve judgement on that score until I've had the opportunity to test the products on the four major hair types.
While many pop stars have been developing and lending their names to makeup lines (YEAAASSSS Rihanna with Fenty Beauty) I wonder when we'll see an artist throw their influence, name and connections behind the development of a haircare line with a mission and vision similar to Vida Hair Growth products? Belcalis, (Cardi B) I think you can step up to the plate on that one girl.
I can't wait to try Vida Hair Growth products and report back!
I've been trying to write this post for days. Literally day's have gone by with, at best, a few mediocre drafts jotted on questionable scraps of paper. All that effort, (smirk) with the plan of cobbling the patchwork together in a rhapsodic and sweeping soliloquy... but no. I can't locate the questionable scraps and none of the ones I've located make any sort of sense. Typical.
So I start anew with fresh woman rage to spur me on. Woman rage is everywhere these days isn't it? Suddenly in my most potent 30's I'm seeing and experiencing the "enough" phenomenon. In my conservative work place far away from the super celebrities in California, I am having the most stimulating lunches and tea breaks with women who are Fed. Up. The sharing of experiences of harassment, discomfort, condescension and straight up CREEPY behavior are familiar and frustrating.
Many of you watched (or heard the aftermath of) the Golden Globes. It was the latest in a heavy schedule of very public, unified, assertions of some of the most powerful women in Hollywood against the "Woman Tax" we women are all tired of paying.
*Woman tax - The discounting of human dignity through the experience of: humiliation, degradation, condescension, sexual intimidation, physical and/or emotional abuse, harassment and/or other soul crushing, life altering episode(s) incurred and experienced at some time and in some form by a woman by virtue of being BORN a woman. Note - both genders assume role of tax collector in the most disgustingly base ways.
I was taken aback by the choice of the unified dress code of black (I thought white would have been a more appropriate choice... but then again that too has interpretive connotations). Let's talk hair of the evening. There were very few if any sexy, tossed up, tumble down, come hither styles usually seen paired with the colorful, slits up to here and necklines down to there couture gowns. The hair was simple and serious. Faces were exposed. It wasn't about enhancement or adornment, it wasn't ugly or severe - it was business. We saw faces. Really saw faces. The minimalism was telling.
Sometimes hair can and should be part of the fantasy creation of untouchable goddess like womanhood, we all seek to create those moments of slay and watch the persons, objects or goals of our desire, quest or conquering pray for strength to resist our majestic might. I freely admit to and embrace the use of a full arsenal of whatever you've got to assert your position.
The unified Globes hair statement made me think of how and what we communicate with our hair. There are heaps of information about "take me seriously hair". Oddly enough, its all about showing your face and letting the world see who you really are. In other words, "façade" hair is not going to communicate you mean business unless the situation itself calls for that aesthetic.
As Oprah said during her news making speech at the Globes,
"...[s]peaking your truth is the most powerful tool we all have."
The time for us, who need not get red carpet ready (any day of the week); who work, go to school, participate in our communities in every and any capacity - everyday; who grind passionless but striving for purpose; who are thanked-less, overlooked, dismissed objectified, made to feel less than and INSECURE as hell as a result, while all the while paying that godforsaken Woman Tax over and over and over again by just waking in the morning (and perhaps multiple times through the day), to clear our hair from our lovely faces. Dare to be seen, and more importantly LIVE .OUR. TRUTH.
Within our hands (MEN and WOMEN), in the expanse of your mind and in the depth of your heart lies your own justice.
*This definition is mine and crafted by me in this way, in JUST this way, because I have witnessed, heard or personally experienced (shudder) some of the above.*
Gentle reader you have been saved. Your pocketbook has been saved, your hair has been saved. Alicia T. came through and rendered her services for the sake of a greater good - testing products so you won't have to.
A word about the products. BioBotantic, is an Italian brand that offers, professional- grade organic products. The company claims that their products are suitable for all hair types and versatile enough to enhance hair in any condition. The company approached Olivia's with free product for testing and review some time ago.
Clearing throat - I know I've been slacking, but I'm getting back on it... PROMISE
In this, the first of a multi-part review of the range of products received, we'll test the BioBotanic Beauty Drops on Alicia T's wavy, color-treated type 2 hair. The main ingredient in the Beauty Drops is Horsetail. Yeah I didn't know about the benefits of horsetail until I looked it up either. Lemme learn ya right quick. Resembling alfafa in appearance, horsetail is actually classified as a living fossil (which is pretty cool and mind-blowing - living. fossil. think about that for a moment)
Ancient Greeks, Chinese and Roman herbalists have been using horsetail for its medicinal benefits for centuries. Horsetail is known for its anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, healing antiseptic and antimicrobial properties.
Okay all that sounds good but what makes horsetail such a hair wonder? It can, unlike many other plants, absorb silica! SUPER RARE! Super good for hair! Think: SHINY, GLOW IN THE DARK SHINY HAIR, think men collapsing with wonder shiny, think of the possibilities! Additionally, (in a sensibly pitched voice) the plant contains nutrients like calcium, manganese, iron, flavonoids tannins, fatty acids and other things that are crunchy wholesome but no one can pronounce.
The quick and dirty hair benefits:
1. Promotes hair growth (we like)
2. Cures dandruff and helps prevent split ends (we like)
3. Works as a natural conditioner (lemme pop down to the GNC and start ingesting this stuff as a supplement)
Okay now you know all about the main ingredient in the BioBotanic Beauty Drops, lets get down to the review.
For your reference, our reviewer, Alicia T is of Chamorro/Japanese decent, has a thicker hank of hair and is in her fabulous 40’s. While Alicia’s hair tends toward the dry, she has not shied away from color and actively engages in the quest for the perfect bleachy wave. It is in the spirit of this quest that I have suggested Alicia test this product. First to restore moisture and then enhance and beautify the natural wave in her hair.
When presented with the Olivia’s product review survey, these were Alicia’s thoughts.
1. The product was odorless. Let me be clear in saying that I think that it's great that the product is odorless. I have allergies and sometimes strong smells irritate me.
2. I don't know if the bottle comes in a separate box. I hope not. The bottle is a perfect size for home and travel uses. User friendly for small hands. I used as directed three inches away and all over the hair.
Olivia on packaging: Products were all provided in a brown craft box tied with raffia and nestled in shredded paper. Sleek and simple.
3. I used as directed, First I washed my hair as usual and sprayed on after towel drying.
4. I had some reservations but I really liked the product. On application it wasn't sticky and bonded to the hair nicely. When dried all the way, my hair was super shiny.
5. Not one dislike thank you!
6. The product made my hair feel soft, airy voluminous - just the way I like it.
7. I will definitely purchase this product! Who knew I'd need something called beautifying drops?
8. My other observations were about the packaging of the product. I appreciate the length of the plastic tube for the pump. I know that would make it easy to spray at any angle and volume.
Parting (unsolicited but ever so gracious) words from Alicia -Thank you for inviting me to test this product.
BioBotanic's Beauty Drops gets Olivia's stamp of approval for type 2 hair. The product is pricy at $16.48 for 3.3 oz. however, the BioBotanic representatives have let me know that they do ship internationally!!!! You can purchase BioBotanic products here. Don't forget to check the hyperlinks to the entire range of BioBotanic products above and follow them on Instagram!
If you try the beauty drops and have a different hair type, let me know how it works out for you! Any recommendations or comments on the product review (because we always want to improve) leave it in the comment section below!
It's been a long, long time since I've commented. The whole year has nearly whooshed by and between tracking the absurdity that is the news and trying to stumble half sane through the days, things have slipped...
Well no. Not exactly. The silence started with a MAJOR hair mistake. MAJOR. Let's just say this, my hair finally (at long last) took a last gasp of air and died! DIED! I had a very emotional wake. I screamed. I cried. I dressed up a donkey and sat in a pile of tissues (mascara running) in sack cloth and ashes.
So what have I been doing these past months? Gathering myself and taking to major hair repair watch. It's been nothing short of terrible. I've had a cut and taken to ingesting fist fulls of hair growth vitamins (as if eating another hair gummy before bed will actually result in magical chia pet type growth in the morning.
It doesn't. *sigh*
In search of an immediate fix that will keep me from leaping from the kitchen cabinets, because that was on my list of things to do next, I have resorted to months of protective styling. First, I look like a terrifying apparition of my 23 year old self in hombre braids. I was not pleased but was presentable and no one was the wiser.
On the upside, its a good time in life to experiment with my hair. You know before I morph into my ideal self.... Lord when is that stoke of luck going to happen? More heavy sighing. Anyway, I'm going to keep experimenting with and featuring protective styling (for all textures and lengths and ethnicities). There will be weave, maybe a wig, definitely a braid or two and color throughout. One cannot cease living in the name of hair! ...Although to be fair the recitation above would lead you to believe (correctly) that committing suicide off kitchen cabinets implies that I wasn't too keen on the idea joyful living with damaged hair.
So just to clarify, that scream you heard in February/March, that defining howl, heard round the world - Yup... that was me. But... I'm on the rebound. Here we go!
Valentines day is here and this means preparations of the heart-shaped variety. I love and celebrate all holidays and will not be joining in any celebrations that include wearing black and looking dog-faced because I am not celebrating with a significant other.
Yeah, I said dog-faced. You know who you are.
Instead, I will be moisturizing, (because who wants to date a dog face???) wearing some rich reds and showing my hair some love!
For those of you going out, definitely try a 'work-to-evening' hair style, like a messy bun, loose waves or curls. Do not come up with some elaborate disaster like a braid in the shape of a heart if you are over the age of 12.
If you're like me and home for the evening (where friends will be descending for Indian food and a showing of Be My Valentine Charlie Brown), then you might as well make yourself a mug of hot chocolate and mask your hair...after everyone leaves of course!
First, we need to understand the difference between a hair mask and a deep conditioner. The way that I distinguish a hair mask from a deep conditioner is by the purpose of the product.
Masks strengthen and seal (usually a protein based formula)
Deep conditioners soften and moisturize
Simple right? Well, read those labels to properly determine whether you're getting a deep conditioner posing as a mask. Or a real mask. The marketing people can be so tricky!
As your valentines treat, Olivia's recommends the masks below.
It's 2017! I can hardly believe it and yet we are nearly through the first complete month of the year!
Let's take some collective steps in the right direction and make this year our best hair year ever! Are you in? The game plan is as follows:
1. Develop and (guuuurrrl) stick to a hair care regimen - Olivia's believes that haircare is SELFcare! It's so important that we take care of ourselves, respectfully and regularly. That means STOP skipping the washes, do some deep conditions and don't wait until your hair is shedding uncontrollably to think about a special treatment.
2. Check out new features on Olivia's - Our two new features Just for the Guys and Tips and Tools! We decided to revamp the site and include more content for men! Ah men! Their sharp cuts, fades and beards. The whole thing! Tips and Tools is a section devoted to those burning questions we have about our blow dryers, brushes, combs etc. I mean how precisely do you modify and Denman anyway? (I bet some of you want to know what a Denman is! LOL!)
3. New ways to connect - Olivia's is gearing up to launch new platforms where we can connect via social media! Exciting right? We want to hear more from you wherever you are! Let's take some of the guess work out of hair and help each other out. Know of a fantastic salon in London? Dubai? Stockholm, or Fayetteville (oh yes there is good hair in Fayetteville! ,,,we just don't know where it is) We are looking for locations, suggestions, the best products, products to avoid and especially where to go to get your hair hooked...UP that is.
It's going to be a great year!